When They Leave and When They Come Back

Becoming a mom has transformed how I see certain Bible stories—especially now as a mom of an adult kid. 

One story that has deeply shaped me is the story of the lost son (Luke 15:11-24).

After the son received his inheritance, he packed up everything, and left. I imagine the father watching him go, heartbroken, knowing his son might face challenges and make decisions he wouldn’t agree with.

How many of us moms can relate? We give our kids everything we have—our love, guidance, and resources—and then watch as they step into the world, making choices that can feel so far from what we taught them.

And yet, when the son came home—broken, with nothing left—his father didn’t meet him with judgment or criticism. He didn’t say, “I told you so,” or remind him of his mistakes. 

Instead, the father ran to him with open arms, full of compassion and love.

It’s such a powerful reminder that our kids don’t need to have it all together to come home. They don’t need to have everything figured out before we welcome them with love. 

And the truth is, we don’t need to have it all together either.

This story is both beautiful and challenging. It asks us to set aside our own hurts, disappointments, and expectations to meet our kids where they are. And while it’s not always easy, there’s a grace and freedom in choosing love and compassion over judgment.

If you’re navigating a tough season with your child, know that you’re not alone. 

There’s hope in the journey and beauty in the process of reconciliation.

With love -Nicole